How to Check Pending Follow Requests on Instagram

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Looking to learn about your pending follow requests on Instagram and how to check which users are yet to accept? It’s quick and easy to see who’s following you or whom you’ve followed, but keeping track of those requests it gets tricky. It’s a bit more hidden in Instagram’s interface.

Download Your Instagram Followers

Head to your profile page in the Instagram app, and click the hamburger icon on the top-right to land on your Instagram Settings and activity page. You can manage all of your settings here, from Instagram’s privacy settings, to many other options. Tap Accounts Center / Accounts Centre.

Instagram's settings, highlighting the Accounts Center.

Select Your information and permissions, and click Download your information.

Meta Accounts Center's information and permissions screens. It highlights the option for the user to downnoad their information.

Select Download or transfer information to see all your Meta accounts. Check the box for Instagram, and click Next to reach your profile.

Meta Accounts Center, showing the user their Meta Accounts so they can choose which account they wish to download their pending follow requests information from.

Select Some of your information to see many options to select and download. Scroll down until you find the Connections category, and select Followers and following -> Next. You can download all your Instagram chats with media from this same screen.

Two screenshots from the Meta Account Center, where the user selects how much information they wish to download, and which parts.

Select Download to device, choose the desired Date range option, click Save, then hit Create files at the bottom.

2 screenshots- the first shows the date range options to check your pending follow requests on Instagram, and the second shows the user creating the requested files to peruse later.

It can take up to a couple of hours to prepare the file with your pending follow requests on Instagram. While you wait, check out other options on the app, such as the Notes on Instagram feature.

Find Pending Follow Requests

After your files have downloaded, go back to the Accounts Center. Select Your information and permissions -> Download your information. Under Available downloads, click the Download button under the file, then enter your password.

Meta Accounts Center, showing a user's information about pending follow requests on Instagram ready for download.

Select Files under Save in. Go to your downloads folder, find the .zip file you just downloaded, then extract it, and open the resulting folder.

A screenshot from Google Chrome, where users choose where to save their downloaded Instagram file. The second screenshot is from iPhone files, showing the zipped file with information about the user's pending follow requests on Instagram.

Open the start_here file, and click Pending follow requests.

A screenshot of the downloaded files. The second is a screenshot of the downloaded file, highlighting a user's pending follow requests on Instagram.

You will see everyone who has not accepted your follow requests on Instagram. Follow the links to visit their profiles if you wish to rescind your pending follow requests for their Instagram accounts.

Check Who Has Not Followed You Back

You can check much more than just your pending follow requests on Instagram. You can also check which Instagram accounts have not followed you back.

Open the start_here file, and click Followers. Copy the entire list of your Instagram followers, and click on Following. Do the same with the list of accounts you follow. You also have to manually remove the timestamp under each account. You can do that quite easily by using AI.

Head over to Compare Two Lists. Paste the list of all your Followers into the List A box and your Following list into List B. Select Compare Lists.

comparetwolists.com, with a box titled 'List A' having a user's Instagram followers, and another titled 'List B' having a user's following list.

In the box labeled Only in list A, you can see every Instagram account that follows you, but that you don’t follow back. In the Only in list B box, you can see who does not follow you back.

comparetwolists.com, showing compared lists with a person's followers and following.

Through these methods, not only can you check all your pending follow requests on Instagram, but also who does not follow you back. After all, if somebody isn’t seeing your story uploads on Instagram while you’re throwing hearts their way, it may be time to unfollow!

Image credit: Stable Diffusion. All screenshots by Samarveer Singh.

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Samarveer Singh
Samarveer Singh - Contributor

Samarveer has been a tech-nerd since he was two, funneling every bit of saved money into gaming and computer peripherals. As the go-to person for all things tech in his circle, he lives and breathes PCs and mobile phones. When not immersed in the latest gadgets, you can find him touring cross-country, indulging his passion as an ardent motorhead.